I was wondering why so many people were stopping by!  If you’re a new visitor, welcome!  And if you’re a regular, you may be interested to know this blog was just featured on the “Editor’s Pick” section of GayDemon’s blog!

I have to say, I’m quite honored.  Click here to read the review.  They did get a few details wrong… I’m in Southern California, not Northern (Los Angeles, to be exact), and I’m now 42 (although to their credit, I realized I had not updated that info until about 10 seconds ago).  But those are minor details.

Now, if you are new, don’t be scared off by all the posts below.  I do plan on continuing, just moving.  The name of the site may change once I secure a domain name.  Check my twitter for latest updates in case you find this blog missing at any point, or visit my main blog tiedfeetguy.com (which…

After the announced changes to the google blogger policy, I still feel it is a sign of them cracking down on adult blogs in general.  So after some thinking and advice, I will be working on getting this blog self-hosted, so I can have more freedom.  That could mean some down time, a period where things don’t work, and possibly another new look to the blog.  Now I’ll have to work with WordPress (which I have no experience with) and a hosting company (which I have very little experience with).  But I feel I should do it now, as I have some time to work on it–while later on may not be the case.  Also, this may mean this version of the site and all it’s pics may possibly be going away, so please take some time to go back and save whatever pics you like now before it’s too late.

For my main blog, TiedFeetGuy, it’s a bit…

So I can’t go into to too much detail… but part of the reason I’ve been so busy lately is that my BF and I are taking a very big personal step forward in our relationship.  Now, in the interest of maintaining some privacy (especially his), I won’t go into further detail.  But it marks a very exciting and positive time for us.

As you can imagine, since we’re prioritizing other things, the blog may take a back seat for me for a while.

I will try to get back to the blog as soon as get through this hectic time.  I do plan to return, so don’t panic.  🙂

In the meantime, I’d suggest following my twitter to get the latest updates.

Thanks for your understanding!

So if you didn’t see this already, it seems UA now has a Superhero line.  Visit the link here to get them for yourself.

[Note:  this is not an affiliate of mine.  Meaning that I will not receive any sort of monetary compensation should you purchase any of these items.  But I thought readers of this blog would want to know about this.]

So, not exactly sure why, but I haven’t been into the blog as much lately.  There’s been a sense of detachment for me.  It’s not like before, where I felt a bit unappreciated.  But it’s not quite as important to me as it once was.  It’s kind of hard to explain, and I may elaborate in a later post.  Mainly, I think I want to put a bit more focus back into my regular life, boyfriend, and real life people.  I feel like I have more online kinky friends than real life regular friends.  And while I love the online kinky friends, it’s feeling a bit unbalanced.

Now, unlike before, I don’t plan on quitting the blog.  No need to panic.  And I still plan on doing as many updates as I can, and so far, it’ll still be the usual Mon/Wed/Fri/Sat.  But if you do notice a day, or two, or three, or maybe even up to a…

I don’t know if you saw this, but yesterday, this blog hit #1 at Best Male Blogs!

And yes, that’s my other blog, Baring My Sole, at #3.  Baring beat out GayDemon of December of last year, but #4 is the highest this blog ever got before.  It’s kinda cool to say that both of my blogs have been voted #1 now, and when I get a chance, I’ll be updating my “Vote for me” link on my right sidebar.  😉

Now, this sort of thing tends to change quickly–and to be honest, it already has.  My Baring readers, responding to my request to vote it up over GayDemon, took it up to #1.  But I’m hoping Captured Heroes readers can keep voting, too.  I’d  love to be both #1 and #2! Not sure if it’s going to happen… as of yesterday, Baring’s rating is 4.06, GayDemon’s is 4.04, and Captured Heroes is 4.01.  Which is…

Hero/Lycra party in Los Angeles.  I’ve been to a few before… unfortunately, I can’t make this one as I’m out of town.  But I hope many of the rest of you attend!

You know, kinksters need to come out twice… once as gay, and once as a kinky.

One is not necessarily easier to publicly announce than the other.

It’s gay pride month, and I think we should talk about this from a kinkster point of view.

I personally realized, acknowledged, and came to terms with my passion for bondage way before I acknowledged I was gay.  Thanks to the 60’s TV show Batman (it played in reruns as I was growing up, I’m not quite that old yet, lol), I knew I loved being tied up.  I would constantly roll myself up in blankets as a kid in self-mummification, and my family owned a very long jump rope that I would tie myself to a chair with constantly.  (And I’ve noticed that jumpropes have been the gateway toy for many a budding kinkster.)  I knew somehow it was “wrong”… I would do it only when I was alone,…